Pushin'

Good morning,

I’m in serious thinking mode right now. I have sooooo many thoughts swirling around in my head it’s starting to make me dizzy….lol. One of the things that I want to express is that when there is heartbreak it’s a process to get back to you. It doesn’t happen overnight. Please know that even when it feels like you are not moving you really are. As long as you have the mindset to move you will move. There will be thoughts of why but you have to keep pressing forward. This is why I always say make a plan. If you have something to do, it keeps you from sitting around in a pool of pity. We are not able to change people but we can be better to ourselves. When you are good to you then you can see how things really are around you. In any relationship how the other person treats you should just be icing on the cake. Their love, affection, interaction should always be “extra”. We should never live solely on someone else’s love. This is a sure way to deplete their love and when it’s gone, we are left with the memories of how it use to be. We become thirsty for it. This allows people to treat you any way they want and you stick around because you are living on a memory of what USE to be. Let’s be good to ourselves so that we can fully appreciate the blessings that are ahead. For now, continue to push forward. Stay focused on your happy.

I know this message will not be for everyone but you still may be able to use it to help someone else.

Lots of LOVE!

AND remember winning is not just in the finish….. You are winner when you take that first step.

MAKE IT GREAT

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