"Easy Button Love"

Good morning,

I was thinking about loving someone and I decided I have to have “Easy button Love”. I have always felt this way. Easy button love involves two people that love each other freely. There is no guessing what the other wants because they are free to say out-loud what they need and the other is available to listen and work on making that happen. This seems easy but it’s not. People either do not listen, expect the other person to know what they want, are too afraid to ask, or just don’t want to do it. This type of Love requires a certain level of vulnerability. This is where the problem lies. Most people (including myself at times) do not want to be hurt or made to look like a fool. They are afraid to take a chance in love. I usually push through this and make myself take the risk anyway. I mean what could it hurt? I have been hurt before and I have healed nicely….lol. I think that if there were communication and honesty then why wouldn’t you want to take that chance? I see very happy couples and I think how do they know that the other loves them as much as they love? Well, it comes from communication and follow through. I honestly think some people hold back because they are waiting for the other shoe to drop. Maybe they need a certain amount of drama in their life. Some people do not take the time to actually see what the other person has to offer. In order to get to Easy button Love you must do the research and put in the time. You must also enjoy the moment. I love hanging out with a man and it’s easy. We go out to have a good time right? So, why not enjoy the moment? Every moment I spend with a man (or friends and family), I want it to be easy and fun because that’s how life is with me. I have some tense moments but my good definitely outweighs my bad. I am grateful and blessed. All of the love that I have in my life at the moment is easy button love. It’s relaxed and non demanding. I will give so that others feel comfortable giving it back to me. I have lots of love so I don’t mind going first….lol

Today free your love. It can come in many variations. Love can be a sweet hug, kiss, phone call, text, or e-mail. Make someone’s day!

AND remember love doesn’t grow by you holding on to it. The more love you send out the more you get back!

MAKE IT GREAT!

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