UPS......

Good afternoon,

I had some very interesting discussions this weekend…… so you know that my mind is spinning.

I have noticed that there are some people that have things happen to them as children and they use that pain as a shield for all future experiences. I understand that they do not want to have those experiences again but what they fail to realize is that they are adults now. They make the decisions not their parents. As a child, you are at the mercy of the people raising you. Once you have flown the coop, it’s all on you now. When you carry that pain along you are poisoning every relationship you have because you are defending yourself from something that is not even happening. You make all of these rules and set all of these boundaries that no one can get through. In the end, you are only hurting yourself. You are blocking blessings and love. Keep your eyes and ears open so that you can recognize red flags but do not instantly put up a guard when no one has done anything.  Have enough Faith in yourself that you will not put yourself in harm’s way. When you are defensive and well guarded, you are telling yourself that you do not trust you. Why would you do that? Do you think that you are helping yourself by pushing others away? You say that you have a desire for a relationship but you will not give anyone a chance. In the game of love there will always be a chance that you will get hurt but if you are so focused on the hurt you will never be able to feel the love.

Maybe I’m trippin’ and you are just waiting on that cat you special ordered……..O_O

AND remember no matter how tough the past was, the future holds the key to true happiness, our bruises and scars just makes us realize how strong we really are……..

MAKE IT GREAT!

E