Oh, you boo'd up?

Good morning,

I was sitting and discussing why some people deal with other people hoping for a relationship and one of them said, “Someone will give you just enough to keep you hanging on”. We said that we stay hanging on because….. and we all said at the same time “Potential”. We give people potential to do things when they are showing no signs of making that happen. Think about it…. When someone wants something, they will take the steps to make that happen. There are times we want something sooooo bad that we will stay in the state of denial of what’s really going on around us. Then we have the audacity to be hurt when things never happen. All of the signs were there. It’s not like on Monday it was all gravy and on Tuesday it fell apart. Most times, they have already given a reason that it may not happen. We of course choose to ignore that. Excuses are made for the things that hurt our feelings because no one is perfect and “potentially” they have what we want.  So instead of letting go we stay around allowing that person the string us along….. They are not bad people but if you can get what you want without having to make any commitments then why not. You may feel like, “well I wouldn’t do that” but in actuality you have done it before. The one person that you were not really feeling but you kept them around for when you get bored. Remember them? Oh, it’s not the same because you didn’t go out with them.... Well you are not thinking of their feelings. Is it partly their fault for hanging around yes…. Just like it’s our fault for hanging on to someone that obviously does not want the same thing that we want. So….what do you do when you find yourself in this situation? I did some research and mostly it said to leave them alone or start dating others to take the thirst away…..lol. The point is…..If someone really wants to be with you then they will. If they are putting you off for some semi promised future relationship then start dating other people. Don’t miss out on a “potential” blessing waiting on….ummm… something. You are not committed or exclusively dating so date. You never know, you may come across that person that will appreciate what you have to give and find yourself in the situation you wanted all along……

AND remember let the continued growth in actions show potential………..

MAKE IT GREAT!

E