If I was you I would leave you!

I find myself telling people this all of the time lately….. I’m joking but there is a point that goes with this joke. When you treat yourself so poorly why would you want to stay with yourself. When you treat others better than you treat yourself you are wrong……

While talking to someone I told them that they have to get rid of those negatives thoughts and replace them with positive ones because it’s those thoughts that have them making the rash decisions that they make and therefore they end up with something or someone that doesn’t make them happy.

How can you ever expect to be happy with someone if all you keep doing is inviting men that are not equally yoked?

You are so afraid that things will not happen for you that you find yourself clinging on to little boys that are not worthy of the superwoman that you are. I mean think about it. You meet a man and you want to show him that you are the woman that he would want to be with. You give him all that you have to give. You make sure that he understands how you feel about him. Because he doesn’t have the necessary tools he cannot give you the things you need in return. You find yourself really sad because you have given all that you have trying to make it work. You find yourself not understanding why he can’t give you what you need in return because you have given him so much of you.

HE DOESN’T HAVE IT TO GIVE!!!!!!!!!

If you give a crackhead a million dollars there is a going chance that he is going to mess it up because he doesn’t have the tools or knowledge on how to properly handle a million dollars……

That is the same thing you are doing giving certain men a prize they can’t handle. Then you wonder why it doesn’t work out. You should stand tall and proud loving you and all that you are capable of giving someone and make them work for it. I’m not saying be mean or play games. I mean let them court you. Go out on a couple of dates and see if you like them. See if they are worthy of your time. Heck they are doing the same to you so why won’t you do the same.

Don’t rush because please believe that you were already special to him when you gave him your number. You were a DIME from the jump! You think he wanted to talk to you because you have an awesome job, or several degrees? He doesn’t even know that much yet. He saw your smile and the way that you carried yourself and he was sold!  So take your time…..

Before you know it you will be months down the line and still interested because you have weeded out all of the thorns and gotten to the rose.

Someone asked me how will you will you know if they are the “One” and I said you taking it one day at a time will never end…. It will just keep going.

First you have to love you…..

E